I read somewhere ““Some people think it’s holding that makes one strong—sometimes it’s letting go.” 

Cannot agree more with the above.We all live around so much jazz around life like feelings, expectations, profession, marriage, love,romance that we forget about ‘moments’ in life. These frills butts us in so many pressures of being a good wife, a good mom, a good daughter-in-law, a good friend, a good professional,a good socialite that we start conditioning ourselves to be the slaves of others imagery of us and also start expecting the same from people around us. Through the vicissitudes of life, I understood that ‘being good human was important’ and the others will fall into place on their own.

For once we have all been a person thinking that ‘If I do not communicate this, I will die” and in most situations its the complain ,the anger that we want to communicate and not the actual objective point of view of ours. We often mistaken “communicate” with “blurting it out”. This happened with me once, when I was fuming with some thought and was about to give a good piece of my mind to a loved one and suddenly in that moment of anger I said to myself, “I am not going to blurt it out, neither communicate..this is not as important in my life..I will let it go”…worked wonders!

We all have been forced to believe that life is a struggle and their are no real relationships in this world.I think If we let go of our preconceived notions on life ,relationships and people we might be able to notice the obviousness and that is ‘everybody has a point’ and they act accordingly so actually there is no point proving them wrong…one just has to let go.

So now I let go of my inhibitions, my fears, my failures, my achievements and at times my feelings too …to experience “how is it to live life without these frills attached”? I must say I am enjoying the ride!

8 thoughts on “Living life -“no frills attached”

  1. Gini sweetheart, couldn’t thankyou more for writing such soul stirring words, and at a phase when I was actually being weighed down by all kinds of overwhelming feelings. Kudos to u kiddo!!! for helping me be ME again 🙂
    Keep going ahead…..lots of luv and hugs to u!!!!

    1. Nidhi di, very inspiring words.I didnt know I made a difference.I am so glad you found yourself back..and now that you have found yourself…keep letting it go..so you can find it again with some new additions!

  2. well, it reminds of a quote which was something like this. Let it go, if it comes back.. its yours. if not then it was never yours.
    we are all so teritorial. all animals are, we are no less.. i read from a book.. human animal and i so much believe it.
    Now, since we can think (some write well too), we start acquiring territories .. mental and physical… both.. what you are asking.. is liberate.. well, it does makes sense and one wud feel light and would enjoy the ride.. keep it that way. for some people its really tuff, for you, i suppose it should be cake walk.

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